Sad that all my blogs are frustration

But, here we go. This ought to be for the last time though. My friends know too well the saga that is my 19 year old daughter. Most of the history is here on this blog.
We let her stay here in our home under a few reasonable conditions.
1. get a damn job.
2. keep a damn job.
3. spend all day every day looking for a damn job if you don't have one or two even.
4. no more boyfriend, he's an enabler and she's a manipulator, they are bad bad bad for each other. His parents were very happy when we told them that one of our conditions was that she not see him anymore.
5. no more lies.
6. keep your room and bathroom clean.
7. pitch in around the house, we aren't your servants.
8. no more lies.
9. make money and save it to pay off the crazy high debt accumulated in the 41/2 months of living footloose and fancy free.
10. no more junk food. It makes her mood swings BAD.

Seems reasonable? Yes?

So, Saturday we find she's squirreled away some cash from a babysitting gig, and / or seen said boyfriend over the last 2 weeks and her car is filled with fast food remnants, soda bottles, soda cups, crap. Her room has some too. We had a very serious blow out. Told her her lies will catch up to her sooner or later, it has to happen, always does.

Today, I get a call from said boyfriends dad and he's just kicked her out of his house and out of his sons bed.

Uh huh. Not 10 hours after an act of "I'm sorry for all the crap" "I am thankful you took me back and gave me another chance".

No more. She's made her choices. She's an "adult" so she's out. I had made it clear over and over there would be no 3rd chance. If she blew this one all to hell, that's it. KABOOM.

I do worry for her safety, she has no where to go, that I know of. She may find some friends sofa to lay about on for a day or 3, but no one will put up with that for long I'm sure.

Do I sound harsh? I'm very angry. I will miss my child, I will worry for her safety every day. But, I will not put up with a liar, a thief and a cheat taking advantage anymore. Especially after she's told all of us, every family member to F*** off.

Sad day. For all of us. It's been sad and hard for a long time. But it is sad that it's come to this.